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::.I want to switch careers but my spouse is afraid our lives will be ruined...
You're ready for a change, and you want to exchange your present career for another. This can be an exciting time of new possibilities. However, if your spouse resists this change, you may experience anxiety, depression, and feelings of hopelessness. Relax, you have plenty of company. It's normal to question the meaning of your work, especially in midlife. And it is possible to change careers and keep your marriage. Here's how...
The Solution
Talk to each other: "Couples need to discuss how they feel about their careers in detail," says Kinzley. "Some people may decide they need to make radical career changes in midlife, such as going from a corporate executive job to a lower-paying career in interior design."
Take your time: "Never rush changes like this," Kinzley says.
Try counseling: "It can be helpful for couples to go for joint counseling to explore how this transition can be made," suggests Kinzley. Spouses need to understand that they will not only survive their spouse's career transitions, but that they can help make them happen more smoothly.
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